1)One aspect of our identity is gender. As a boy or a girl, how were you socialized into learning what was considered culturally appropriate behavior for your gender? Which agents of socialization taught you these cultural norms, and which was the most significant in shaping your sense of self? Explain.

Growing up as a boy, I was socialiszed so that my sex and gender identity aligned according to cultural norms. 

Step-by-step explanation

            The first agent of socialization that I even had was my family. They still are, but their impact isn't a much as it was when I was younger. Both my parents had a huge part to play in me becoming a boy. If we start with the toys, when my sister got dolls, I got something like a ball or a bicycle. When it came to house chores, while my sister helped out with the cooking and the cleaning, I was always with my father repairing and installing new staff in the house. When it came to clothing, my mom and dad bought me clothes that are aligned with the male gender and my sister with the female gender. When I got suits and a tie, my sister got dresses, skirts, and a makeup kit.

            When it came to communication, I was told men do not cry and that they have to be courageous. When my dad left for a trip that would take a couple of days, he always told me to look after my mother and sister. So I grew up knowing a man is supposed to take care of the family. 

            Church also played a big role in me taking on the male gender. According to my faith, men are supposed to provide and take care of their families. Through seminars and mentorship programs, boys met with men from different backgrounds and careers, and learned what men do. We are supposed to treat ladies nicely, date only one girl, have children and take care of the family. 

             School had very little to do with my gender. However my peers also had a lot of influence. I engaged in sports that were considered manly such as football. I also engaged in mischievous behavior that boys do such as sneaking out of school. However, the agent that was most significant in shaping my sense of self wa ls my dad. Up to date, I listen to him and learn from him.