Do you consider yourself to be a giver or a taker? Why?

People can be divided into two groups, the givers and the takers. I can proudly say that I am one of the givers kind of people. I know that it is really better to give than to receive. I am not self-focused rather others-focused and tend to provide support to others with no strings attached and not expecting something in return. I always ask myself the questions " How can I help this person?", " How can I make this person happy and smile?". But knowing that there is also two types of givers; the selfless giver and the otherish giver, I can say that I belong to the otherish givers. Otherish giver just like how I define myself is someone who is smart and strategic about their giving. So as an otherish giver type of person, I don't want that others will take advantage of me and the goodness that I am showing them because I also know my limitations of giving unlike the selfless givers who always drop everything to help people even if they end up at the bottom of the success ladders. Yes, I am always willing to give and share what I have especially to the people who are really in need. I am always willing to help but I don't like that that person will no longer do his best because he's only depending on me all the time thinking that he can always count on me. I want that person to succeed on his own without taking advantage to the goodness of others.